Sunday, October 23, 2011

To advice or not too?

You know sometimes, when you care so much for a friend, and you trying to give advice and what you get in reply is this:

The overused
"I can do whatever I want"

"Everything I do is wrong"

"It not your life, it is mine"

I think when you already try to indirectly  to lead your friend to a better path by giving them a word or two but your friend rejects it with a big ego or doesn't even acknowledge his or her own fault. I think it's better to let them think for themselves. At the end of the day, you wouldn't want to be the receiving end of your buddy's bantering and wasting your time.

Sometimes people say that letting a friend do a mistake in life  is better because this will make them understand more. But on the other hand letting them astray into choosing the wrong path at the first place would be disastrous also.

Think  of the shame and the ridicule that person have to endure. 

1 comment:

Mr Lonely said...

walking here with a smile. take care.. have a nice day ~ =D

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